We don't frequently refer to other family law blogs but this one has a good basic strategy: Chinn Law Blog. Of course knowing what to go for and sealing the deal are also helpful. We assist with setting objectives and making your deal enforceable all of the time.
Almost everyone would prefer to have an amicable divorce assuming they can get what they want out of it. Many of our clients also believe they can do well negotiating directly with their wives and some do. Negotiation is a skill and doing it well requires strategy.